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The Tiger Woods multiple affair sex scandal reveals that even the “perfect” image of the beloved, golf phenomenon has been masked by the DateFace. We’re not privy to his private life,
nor should we be; however, what if Tiger was a womanizer before he got married? That’s probably a logical conclusion anyway. Once a womanizer, always a womanizer, right?
What is Dateface? A person who exhibits Dateface acts one way while they are in pursuit of their significant other, and then pulls a switcheroo once they have succeeded in
establishing the relationship. When the Dateface comes off, the person displays one or more of the following characteristics:
Cheating
Dating and/or domestic violence
Drastic change in physical appearance (ex: fine and fabulous to fat and frumpy)
Drastic change in emotional involvement (ex: caring, considerate, and attentive to insensitive, noncommittal, and emotionally detached)
Did you know there’s a 20-year limit on relationships? Have you noticed that high school sweethearts usually break up when they hit that 20-year mark? Or that sometimes
people who marry late in life find everlasting love? That’s because of love’s expiration date on relationships. So, you have to decide if you want to be with someone in your twenties
until they hit their mid-life crisis, or would you rather bask in their golden years. It’s rare nowadays, to find couples whose relationships transcend a lifetime. Relationships in our
early years are fraught with Dateface. It’s not until our forties that we’re comfortable with pulling off the Dateface, which can lead to pain and strife for any relationship.

Nowadays, reciprocal true love doesn’t exist. Every relationship is off balance in one way or another. One of the parties involved has more feelings for the other party.
It’s never equal. So, true love can’t exist. True love is eternal; true love survives all things, is still there after the bad parts. True love is that “ride or die” love; true love
exists in spite of, and even when we don’t want it to. The normal dynamics of a relationship can vary, from both people being in love until one “falls out” of love first; which isn’t
really love in the first place. You can’t fall out of love. You either love somebody or you don’t. Plain and simple. Sometimes in a relationship, one person is “in love” and the
other person is “in lust,” which leads to hurt because the parties are in different places emotionally. Even if two people start out really digging each other, eventually the pendulum
of power swings to the person who is less involved emotionally. In line with survival of the fittest, the dominant person drives the relationships. Dominant does not necessarily mean
physically stronger; dominance can take the form of psychological prowess.
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