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The Mt. Diablo Region YMCA Invites Families to 'Put Play in Your Day' and Bring Healthy Habits Home During the Nation's Largest Health Day for Children and Families

Kids and Families Are Invited to Celebrate YMCA Healthy Kids Day Saturday, April 12 Sponsored by Kaiser Permanente and Overaa Construction

PLEASANT HILL, Calif., April 11 /PRNewswire/ -- The Mt. Diablo Region YMCA will join more than 1,700 YMCAs nationwide in the 17th annual YMCA Healthy Kids Day on Saturday, April 12 from 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. at the Concord Clayton YMCA, Delta Family YMCA, and Irvin Deutscher Family YMCA. An opportunity for kids and families to "Put Play in Their Day," this special event uses free, fun, engaging and creative activities to encourage children and families to adopt behaviors that support a healthy lifestyle. YMCA Healthy Kids Day is part of YMCA Activate America, a national initiative designed to help children and adults discover and sustain healthier ways to live. Locally, Healthy Kids Day is sponsored by Kaiser Permanente and Overaa Construction.

Unhealthy eating and physical inactivity are associated with an increased risk of a number of chronic health conditions, including overweight and obesity. In fact, the percentage of young people who are overweight has tripled over the last 25 years. In 2005, a panel of experts from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommended that school-age children participate in moderate to vigorous activity for a minimum of 60 minutes a day. Studies have shown that children who develop healthy exercise and eating habits while they are young are more likely to maintain healthy lifestyles through adulthood.

"The challenge is that many families see healthy living as an all-or-nothing proposition. Through this lens, achieving a healthier lifestyle can seem overwhelming or out of reach," said Adrienne Carew, vice president of strategic marketing for the Mt. Diablo Region YMCA. "YMCA Healthy Kids Day shows families and kids that making healthy choices can be easy, fun and accessible to everyone. And through our new Healthy Family Home resources, we're giving families take-home tools to help them assess the foundation of how they play, eat and connect together as a family."

Activities taking place during YMCA Healthy Kids Day vary from branch to branch but includes health screenings, arts and crafts, interactive games, cooking demonstrations, health and safety seminars, health and fitness classes designed for kids, and more. Parents are encouraged to participate in these healthy and engaging activities with their kids. Registration for summer programs and camps will also take place at the event.

A free YMCA giveaway with tips on raising healthy, active kids will available, as will prizes for all children who participate in the day's activities. Additional resources will be available to help kids and families achieve their greatest potential from strengthening their financial health to building better bonds together to improving their physical health and nutritional well-being.

"So many families and individuals desire a healthier and happier life but struggle to sustain it," said Carew. "Whether they are in our YMCA facilities, out in the community, or in their own homes, we want families to know that we are here to help them find a way to start establishing new, healthy habits, and that we also offer a supportive community to help them along the way."

YMCA Healthy Kids Day reminds Americans that as individuals and families they can be a part of improving their community as well as themselves -- strengthening bonds, building positive values, spending time together, improving the health and well-being of their family, and making friends for life.

YMCA Healthy Kids Day is generously sponsored nationally by companies dedicated to improving the health and wellness of American kids and families, including the Disney Channel, Eli Lilly and Company, Northwestern Mutual Foundation, and Tropicana. In addition, Kaiser Permanente and Overaa Construction are local co-sponsors of this free family event.

For more information about YMCA Healthy Kids Day, please call Adrienne Carew at 925.887.4648 or visit http://mdrymca.org/.

About the Mt. Diablo Region YMCA

The Mt. Diablo Region YMCA has served the greater Contra Costa County area for 50 years. With four branches, 23 school-age child-care sites at local elementary schools, and four preschools, the organization is continuing to grow and expand its network to meet the ever-changing needs of the local community. The Mt. Diablo Region YMCA provides program services for all age groups, from toddlers to seniors, to more than 38,000 households. The organization is dedicated to enriching the lives of all people through programs that strengthen spirit, mind and body. Financial assistance is available to all individuals who demonstrate proven need. For more information, visit http://mdrymca.org/.

Source: Mt. Diablo Region YMCA

Web site: http://mdrymca.org/


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Asking The Hard Questions
by Ramona Creel

Let's talk for a few minutes about "waffling." You know what "waffling" is, don't you? It begins one day, when you decide to get rid of that old waffle iron you never use. As you put it in the donation bag, you think to yourself, "But what if someone wants waffles?" You take it back out. Then you think, "That’s silly. No one has wanted waffles in 5 years." You stick it back in the bag.

This goes on for another 15 minutes until you finally think the unthinkable – "But I might need it someday." You put the waffle iron back in the cabinet, where it continues to collect dust for another 5 years. Why do you do this? It’s not because you are an evil and indecisive person. You have simply never had a solid set of CRITERIA for determining an item’s worth. No longer!

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU USED IT?

If you haven’t touched something in the past 12 months, chances are that you’re not going to use it in the next 12. Clothes and sporting goods seem to be some of the worst offenders! It’s natural for people to have a hard time letting go of the past. And if an old outfit or a bowling ball really means that much to you, then put it away with your keepsakes. If you feel like you need to hang onto ancient financial paperwork, send it to offsite document storage. Just don’t take up valuable space in your ACTIVE storage areas with items you don’t use.

WILL I EVER NEED THIS AGAIN?

Be honest and realistic about this one! At what point will a green shag toilet-seat cover be crucial to your survival? If you can picture a specific, concrete instance when you will need it in the foreseeable future, then by all means keep it. "I might need it someday" isn’t a good enough rationale.

CAN I ANSWER THE 5 W's?

If you can’t conjure up at least one plausible scenario requiring the use of that green shag toilet-seat cover or dot-matrix printer from 1988, you may want to ask yourself if it is worth hanging on to. Try to provide solid answers to each of these questions:

- WHY WOULD I NEED IT? Try to come up with one specific concrete occasion when you would need that exact particular item again -- not just "I might need it someday."

- WHERE WOULD I NEED IT? If the item in question is only useful up north and you now live in Miami -- or only useful in a corporate environment and you're now self-employed, why keep it?

- WHAT WOULD I NEED IT FOR? What purpose does this item serve? Are you still involved with that activity? No reason to keep letterhead from an old job or tap shoes if you gave up dancing.

- WHO WOULD ASK ME FOR IT? People seem to hang onto stuff because they are afraid someone will ask them for it someday. If it's the IRS or the police, keep it. If not, think twice.

- WHEN WOULD I NEED IT? Okay, you might need it "someday" -- but when is will that day arrive? Three months or 35 years from now? Is it worth hanging onto that long?

IS IT EASILY REPLACEABLE?

Okay –- so let’s say you do get rid of something, and then decide that you need it 6 months later (my mother claims this always happens to her, as a justification for postponing cleaning out!) This isn’t always a problem. Ask yourself what would be required for you to replace this lost treasure. If we are talking about an expensive or hard-to-find item, you are certainly justified in thinking twice before tossing it. You have to consider cost versus benefit –- it may cost you more (in time, space, energy, or money) to keep the item than to replace it IF and WHEN you ever need it.

WHAT IS THE WORST THING THAT WOULD HAPPEN IF I GOT RID OF IT?

When my clients are anxious about discarding an item, they are really saying, "I’m afraid of what might happen if I got rid of it." This is simply fear of the UNKNOWN -– uncertainty about the consequences of their actions. So I ask my clients to let their apprehensions run wild, and to imagine the absolute worst-case scenario. Quite often, the worst-case scenario is not that bad. Will the world end if you toss out that ring binder you haven’t used since college? Probably not. This knowledge helps dissipate the fear and makes letting go a little easier.

Ramona Creel may be contacted at http://www.onlineorganizing.com ramona@onlineorganizing.com. Click here to view more of their articles. Ramona Creel is a Professional Organizer and the founder of OnlineOrganizing.com -- a web-based one-stop shop offering everything that you need to get organized at home or at work. At OnlineOrganizing.com, you may get a referral to an organizer near you, shop for the latest organizing products, get tons of free tips, and even learn how to become a professional organizer or build your existing organizing business. And if you would like to read more articles about organizing your life or building your business, get a free subscription to the "Get Organized" and "Organized For A Living" newsletters. Please visit www.onlineorganizing.com or contact Ramona directly at ramona@onlineorganizing.com for more information.

10 Tips to Rev Up Your Energy & Feel Great
by Beth Tabak

Recently I found myself off track feeling overcommitted and drained. Here are the steps that help me get back on track every time.

Step 1- Monitor the Symptoms and Determine the Solution- Notice when you are feeling drained. Listen to what your body is telling you and make the necessary adjustments. What is causing you to feel drained? What is the solution?

Step 2- Honor Your Body with Healthy Intake and Plenty of Sleep- Let’s face it eating healthy is a challenge for most of us. How about shifting your thinking to what you can do. What healthy food or drinks can you add to your day that would give you more energy? In addition, you will be more productive if you get the best rest for your mind and body.

Step 3- Exercise- This is another challenging area. Again shift your attitude to what you can do. What activity would you enjoy? Commit a small block of time in order to develop a daily habit. Start with15 minutes per day if that's what it takes to help you develop a consistent long term healthy lifestyle.

Step 4- Drink Lots of Water- There are so many health benefits to drinking water in addition to gaining energy. Some say drink 8 glasses of water a day while others say half your body weight in ounces of water. In any event, keeping your body hydrated is a simple step towards keeping you feeling great.

Step 5- Eliminate Clutter- Recently I helped a friend declutter. It was amazing to see the immediate increase in her energy level. Discover how you look at a project. Do you look at a task and think how hard it will be or do you picture the end result? Imagine the end result. Now what can you do to make it easier and fun? You can declutter for 15 minutes a day, set the timer and have a race, turn on some upbeat music, get a bag and throw out 25 items. Be creative. What small area can you declutter that would make the biggest difference in how you feel?

Step 6- Handle Aggravations- Procrastination drains energy. Make the repair, file your taxes, have that talk with your mate or in-law or boss or whoever, take drastic measures to have finances not be an issue. Often the thing we procrastinate on turns out much better than we anticipated. Eliminate one at a time.

Step 7- Under Commit- Know your top priorities. If an offer arises give yourself 24+ hours. Does it fit into your priorities right now? Is there time in your schedule to add the commitment? Remember, when you add a commitment you take away from another area of your life. How will that effect you and your family? Weigh your options. Under commit and have reserves of space and energy to enjoy life.

Step 8- Add Fun to Your Life Regularly- What can you schedule for yourself that would put the biggest smile on your face? What do you love to do? What time can you commit to one of your dreams? Add that to your life and zestfully zip your way through the day.

Step 9- Take Time for Spiritual Development- Spiritual development on a daily basis helps you become centered and clear throughout each day, and lifts the weight of burden off your shoulders. Without taking time to grow spiritually you can get lost in the day-to-day tasks of linear thinking which is exhausting. Spiritual growth brings the ultimate fulfillment. Begin with a small block of time and build on that.

Step 10- Accept Your Life as it is with Gratitude- Take responsibility for your life. It can be invigorating. Suddenly you have choices. Taking responsibility for your past and current situation gives you the power to shape your future.

Jump into building your energy and feeling great... Starting Now!

Please send your comments and tell me what you want to read. I would love to hear from you! Copyright 2003, Beth A. Tabak, All rights reserved.

Beth Tabak may be contacted at http://www.startingnowcoaching.com startingnow@houston.rr.com.

Click here to view more of their articles. Beth Tabak is a Business & Life Coach and owner of Starting Now. She coaches busy business people to achieve more with less stress and struggle. Contact Beth to set up a free “Try It Out” session to see what coaching can do for you.

 

 

Just a Touch of Autumn
by Arleen Kaptur

The calendar pages drop so quickly and Summer is over - the fun, get-togethers, vacations, outings, family, etc. Absolutely not - the most colorful, exhilerating and exciting season is about ready to arrive. Autumn-Fall - Harvest Time - whatever name you attach to this time of year - it is a tribute to the world around you as the Holiday Season is fast approaching and great times are just ahead.

Fall gets the "baking" instinct in you up and about - whether you do the baking or a quick trip to a neighborhood bakery. Warm, fresh and succulent apple offerings - pie, doughnuts with cinnamon and sugar, and caramel iced sticky buns to name a few. Hay stacks, wagon rides, Indian corn, corn stalks, colorful mums (yellow, white, burnt orange, vibrant purple) and pumpkins - tiny orange globes and even white ghosty ones to the biggest, brightest Jack-o-Lantern you can find on a cool Autumn afternoon. There are gourds and straw bales and garden decorating and soon assorted night-time creatures will be lurking around corners and doorways. Fall is Fun - Autumn is absolutely tantalizing. Whether you are sipping on a warm glass of apple cider or working your way through a corn maze - just make sure that you and your family or friends venture out and take advantage of each and every Fall day - and don't forget that true sign of Autumn - a campfire or bonfire in your back yard or in a woodsy campground. The scents of Fall fill the air and the breezes bring adventure anew. Jump in that leave pile like you were a kid again and toast those marshmallows. You are never too old or young to enjoy Fall - so ENJOY!

©Arleen M. Kaptur 2003 September

About the Author
Arleen Kaptur,
akaptur@centurytel.net

http://www.arleenssite.com
Author of books and articles on living a simple, rustic lifestyle - and getting the most from each and every day. Websites: http://www.arleenssite.com

Have a Great Fall
by Arleen Kaptur
 

Summer memories are lingering in the back of our minds, but Fall or Autumn (whichever you prefer) is, in its own right, beginning to show off - with bright colors, harvest aromas, and that wonderfully exhilerating chill in the morning hours and that quilt-hugging breeze in the evening. Apples are the ambassadors for Fall: Quick Fall Dip: 1 pkg. (8 ozs.) cream cheese, room temperature, 3/4 cup brown sugar, 1 tsp. vanilla, 1 cup salted peanuts, chopped, red/golden delicious apples, orange juice Blend together all ingredients except apples and orange juice. Wash and slice apples leaving the skin on. Dip in orange juice. Drain well. Arrange in a circle around your bowl of apple dip. Refrigerate any leftovers. *** Quilts are not just to be used as bed covers. Enjoy them in other rooms in your home as well. Use a light padded one as a table covering or on the back of a rocking chair or occasional chair. Place them within easy reach near a fireplace or sofa, so family or guests can curl up and enjoy a crisp evening. Use them where your bookcases are as a good book, comfortable chair, and a cozy quilt go hand in hand. Fleece throws and blankets work well too. *** Use raffia or fall ribbon as curtain tie-backs or to add a bit of color at the end of curtain or drapery rods. Scatter felt or silk autumn leaves in all the wonderful colors on tables, or shelves. Cut out a pattern from some leaves you find in your back yard and then transfer to felt or colorful fall material. Sew or glue onto potholders and placemats. Add some flannel between two leaves, sew together and use as hot pads or coasters for drinks. *** Near entryways and especially back doors that everyone uses - place some colorful fleece scarves in orange, yellow, and purple. Cut from a piece of fleece and cut a fringe at the ends - remember fleece does not ravel so don't be afraid to cut. Everyone walking out will have a great scarp for a bit of added warmth. Place in a basket or box that you have decorated with fall foliage/colors, and designs. *** Have fun this Fall and let your imagination, creativity, and enthusiasm create wonderful accents for home and the great outdoors. ENJOY! ©Arleen M. Kaptur 2003 September Arleen has written numerous books and articles on the simple/rustic lifestyle. For a free newsletter visit: http://www.arleenssite.com or e-mail akaptur@centurytel.net

Arleen Kaptur may be contacted at http://www.arleenssite.com akaptur@centurytel.net. Click here to view more of their articles.
Author of books and articles on living a simple, rustic lifestyle - and getting the most from each and every day. Websites: http://www.arleenssite.com

 

 


The Holidays That Are Coming Up Besides Thanksgiving & Christmas
by Susan Dunn

Are you ready for the holidays? Who’s holidays are you ready for? If you’ve got global and multicultural clients and friends as I do, here’s a list to help you get it organized.

1. Eid al-Fitr (Muslim) – lunar, when new moon is sighted, so around November 25 depending upon location

Eid Al-Fitr, or the Celebration of Breaking the Fast, marks the end of Ramadan, the month of fasting. Money is given to the poor, and to children, and everyone gets a new set of clothing.

2. Saint Nicholas Day (Christian) -- December 6

Popular for centuries esp. in Northern Europe, celebrating Saint Nicholas, a 4th century bishop of the city of Myra (in what is now Turkey), who was known for his kindness and generosity. Good children receive candies, cookies, apples and nuts, while naughty children receive switches or lumps of coal in their shoes.

3. Bodhi Day (Buddhists) – December 8

aka Rohatsu, celebrates the day in 596 BC when the Buddha achieved enlightenment.

4. Fiesta of Our Lady of Guadalupe (Mexican) -- December 12

One of the most important dates on the Mexican calendar, dedicated to the Mother of all Mexicans.

5. St. Lucia Day (Swedish) -- December 13

Each family awakens a young girl who dresses in a white robe with red ribbon around the waist, and wears a crown of candles on her head. She then brings breakfast to the family -- sweet buns flavored with saffron. The boys (called star boys) wear long white shirts and pointed hats and help carry the sweets. What do you say? God Jul!

6. Hanukkah (Jewish) -- begins December 19

Known also as Festival of Lights, this 8-day, 2,000-year-old holiday celebrates God's glory, an ancient victory of the Jews over their enemies, and the freedom Jews enjoy today. Colors are blue and white.

7. Winter Solstice (Various) - December 22

Long before Christmas, people celebrated the Winter Solstice on the eve of the shortest day of the year. They burned a Yule log in a great bonfire, danced, sang, hung mistletoe from doorways of their home, and decorated with evergreens. In Iran, the celebration is called Shabe-Yalda. The Chinese call it Dong Shi.

8. Kwanzaa (African American) -- begins December 26

Habari Gani? That's Swahili "What's the News?", the Kwanzaa greeting. Kwanzaa's seven days of celebration focus on seven principles: unity (umoja), self-determination (kujichagulia), collective work and responsibility (ujima), cooperative economics (ujamaa), purpose (nia), creativity (kuumba), and faith (imani). Kwanzaa is Swahili for "first fruits of the harvest."

9. Boxing Day (Australian, Canadian, English, Irish, Scottish) -- December 26

Way back when, servants had to work on Christmas, but were given the 26th off to visit their families. Their Landlords gave each servant a box with gifts and bonuses, and churches opened their alms boxes for the poor. Nowadays most people have the day off, and visit, go shopping and celebrate.

10. Omisoka (Japanese) -- December 31

The family gathers to get ready to celebrate the new year. They clean house (susu harai), put things in order and decorate. In the evening they have toshikoshi soba (buckwheat noodles) and then go to temple to make wishes known to buddhist or shintô divinities. At midnight, in all buddhist temples, the bell (bonshô) is rung 108 times to announce the new year.

Susan Dunn may be contacted at http://www.susandunn.cc sdunn@susandunn.cc. Click here to view more of their articles.
Susan Dunn, The EQ Coach, GLOBAL EQ. Emotional intelligence coaching to enhance all areas of your life - career, relationships, midlife transition, resilience, self-esteem, parenting. EQ Alive! - excellent, accelerated, affordable EQ coach certification. Susan is the author of numerous ebooks, is widely published on the Internet, and a regular speaker for cruise lines. For marketing services go here.

 

 

PARTY PLANNING


It's My Party
by Arleen Kaptur

Parties range from quick get-togethers to very elegant, formal affairs. If you are the host/hostess, the bulk of the responsibility lies on your shoulders. So make an impression that will knock the socks off of all your guests. You are not a professional caterer - you don’t have to be. A few simple tricks or tips and you are an entertainment specialist.

Mix crisp pieces of cooked bacon, crumbled, with your buttery string beans or use the bacon as a garnish on top of egg salad, deviled eggs, tomato slices, or potato salad.

Serving steaks or roast beef? Whip butter with your favorite herb (such as garlic, scallions, basil, etc.) in a mixer. Using a small scoop, serve a “ball” of this seasoned butter with your meat entree. You can even use your little treasures on top of hot vegetables. Elegant, indeed!

Serving just plain ole’ potato chips? Try using melted grated cheese (cheddar is great or even pepperjack for a bit more bite), or buy the salt-free and add a seasoned salt. Your guests will be pleasantly surprised.

Serving soup? Try tiny cream cheese balls that you have rolled in parsley or chopped chives. Place a few in the steaming bowl of soup and you have soup par exellance!
 

When using place cards for your dinner guests, try a very considerate approach. If not everyone at your party knows each other, print the guest’s name on both sides of the standing place card. This way the guests across the way can become acquainted with everyone at your table and not just to the few people around them. Very considerate!

Looking for a vegetable idea:
Choose tender, young carrots in full length (peeled, but not sliced). Cook until soft, but far from mushy. Using the green tops of scallions, take three beautiful and colorful carrots and tie them together with the top of the scallion. You can use two or three tops and you have a very pretty vegetable bundle to set on the side of the main meat or fish entree.

Serving hot rolls? Take your prepared hot roll mix and make a figure- eight, or tie a knot, or even shape a letter. Be creative, a basket of different shapes also adds an added appeal to your table.

Using just a few decorative touches to your meal and Viola! you are a very good host/hostess and people will beg to come to your parties. When you use special touches, your guests will feel “catered” to.
Enjoy!


©Arleen M. Kaptur

About the Author
Arleen Kaptur,
akaptur@centurytel.net

http://www.arleenssite.com

Author of books and articles on living a simple, rustic lifestyle - and getting the most from each and every day.


Baby Showers
by Kimberly Lainson

Quick Tips:

Hostess of the Shower?
Anyone can plan the shower -- family members, friends and/or co-workers. A mommy-to-be can have many showers but it is wise to consult her or her mother (if it is a surprise) so that the themes can all be different -- this also avoids duplication of gift items.

Before the Baby or After the Baby is Born?
For first-time mothers, showers before the baby arrives are great fun for her to look forward to in the last month of her pregnancy -- and she and the daddy can play and dream with all the gifts while awaiting their bundle of joy. Mothers having their second or more children, sprinkles can be held before or after the baby is born. The up side of holding the shower after the baby's birth is that gifts can be chosen by the sex of the baby.

Who Pays for the Shower?
The person that plans and invites the guests pays and it is usually considered her gift. Often times, several people will get together and share the expenses. Potlucks are not only fun but budget-saving, as well.

Who Should be Invited?
Traditionally, anyone invited that was invited to the wedding can be invited to baby showers. The best idea is to consult with the new mommy and daddy. Avoid inviting the same people to more than one shower, although some people want to attend several. Best to invite by groups, for example, co-workers, church, etc. The mothers and grandmothers of the mommy and daddy should be invited to all of the showers but it is up to them to decide which ones they will attend.

When Should the Shower Be Held?
Four to six weeks before the baby's birth -- or -- four weeks after the baby is born.

Does the Shower Have to be Held on a Weekend?
The shower can be held any day of the week and at any time of the day that is convenient for the mommy and the invited guests. It can be a brunch, lunch, dinner or just cake and punch. It can be casual, formal or better yet -- a fun baby shower theme.

Is It Acceptable to Serve Cake and Punch Instead of a Meal?
Cake and Punch is very appropriate and makes for a shorter shower. Serving any meal is strictly up to the hostess. If food is served, plan on buffet-style and remember to provide either real dishes or sturdy papergoods because food does get heavy. If it is not a sit-down meal (restaurant or hall), remember that guests have to balance their plate, beverage and napkin on their lap.

To Invite the Daddy or Not Invite the Daddy?
Traditionally, the daddy did not attend showers but does arrive at the end of the shower to say hello to everyone, help load the gifts into the car and to take his wife home. Now-a-days, the daddy can be invited to a baby shower and couple's showers (men and women) are becoming more and more popular.


Clever & Frugal Birthday Party Favor Ideas
by Kimberly Lainson

Birthday Party Favor Idea

If your party loot bags look like "Kiddy Litter", then you'll enjoy this list of frugal party favor ideas that children enjoy and can use. Other ideas include "Non"-Favor Bags, "A to Z Treats", "Candy Shoppe Pizza ideas", "Tea Party Treats", plus recipes for Wizard Dust, Wizard Wands, Little Ladies Lip Gloss, Bubble Bath and Bath Salts, Boy-Boy Gooey Gunk, and Little Mens cologne and shaving cream to make and save money. Enjoy!

A favorite with parents! Candy, toothpaste and a toothbrush

An 'A to Z' Party Favor Bag (visit your nearest Dollar Store for most of these inexpensive items and create your own special bags -- below is just a list of ideas to brainstorm with...)

A is for art supplies (paint sets, markers, crayons, colored pencils)

B is for bubblegum, Band-aids with pictures on them, bouncy balls, bubble blowing toys, baby bottles for dolls

C is for clay (incredible edible playdough recipes ), combs, coloring books

D is for cards (playing cards, trading cards)

E is for erasers (funny shapes)

F is for frogs (mini rubber ones), fake money

G is for Gummy fruit snacks, glitter jel, gift certificate

H is for hat (baseball caps, visors)

I is for instruments (whistles, plastic slide flutes), insects (plastic spiders,ants, etc.)

J is for jewelry, jerky, jelly

K is for keys (key chains)

L is for lollipops, lip gloss

M is for masks, magnifying glass

N is for notepads

O is for Oreo cookies! (mini snack packs)

P is for paper hats, paper airplanes,paper dolls, puzzles, (mini jigsaws, puzzle solving books), popcorn, purses, pouches

Q is for queen (Burger King crown turned inside out and let the kids decorate them.)

R is race cars (mini metal car)

S is for stickers, sachet, spiders, snakes, stamp/pad, sand toys

T is for t-shirts, tattos (removable kind), trucks, taffy, teacups

U is for ukulele (mini stringed uke or guitar)

V is for virtual Gia (the stone shape that when you add water grows grass...)

W is for wind toy (mini kites)

X is for X-ray (stencil of a skeleton on a black sheet of construction paper)

Y is for a yo-yo

Z is for zebra (photo, mini stuffed toy, zebra-striped balloon)

A "Non" Party Favor Bag

This idea is to fun for children 6 years and older: Instead of filling goodie bags, stuff a small prize into balloons and blow them up. Tie off with colorful curly ribbon. Using a large box or childs wading pool, stuff all the balloons into it. (If you helium-fill your balloons, group them together like a bouquet and let them rise to the ceiling with the ribbons hanging down). Occassionally throughout the party, blow a whistle. Each time the whistle is blown, all the guests can chose a balloon, pop it and keep the prize. (Have a safety pin available for ease). If some prizes are too large for the balloons, insert a note telling them they can choose anything they wantProvide a colorful paper lunch bag with their name on it for them to put their prizes in to take home from a "Prize Basket". (Warning: Balloons that been popped are dangerous to small children and pets...)

Candy Shop Pizza Favors

A jar filled with Dessert Pizza ingredients with the recipe attached so kids can make it at home. Truly a clever twist on the Pizza Party theme!

Pizza Dessert: In a jar, layer the dry ingredients for sugar cookies. On top of the dry ingredients, layer red M&M's (pepperoni) and coconut (Mozerella cheese). Cut out a red/white checkered material circle that overlaps the lid, tie off with red or raffia ribbon around the neck of the jar and attach a card with "other ingredients to add" (such as vanilla) and "directions" on how to make their own special dessert pizza.

Chocolate Pizza

Ingredients: 1 cup semisweet chocolate chips 1/2 cup shortening 1/2 cup all-purpose flour 1/2 cup white sugar 2 eggs 1 teaspoon baking powder 3/4 cup semisweet chocolate chips 2 tablespoons shortening 2 tablespoons water

Directions Melt 1 cup chocolate chips and 1/2 cup shortening in a double boiler and let cool. Stir in flour, sugar, eggs, and baking powder with fork. Spread crust evenly onto a well greased pizza pan. Bake at 375 degrees F (190 degrees C) for 15 minutes and let cool. Combine 3/4 cup chocolate chips, 2 tablespoons shortening and water. Melt in a doubler boiler, stirring until smooth. Spread this mixture evenly over cooled chocolate crust. Decorate as desired with candies.

Chocolate Pudding Pizza

Ingredients 1 (17.5 ounce) package peanut butter cookie mix 1 (12 ounce) container softened cream cheese 1 3/4 cups cold milk 1 (3.9 ounce) package instant chocolate pudding mix 1 (8 ounce) container frozen whipped topping, thawed 1/4 cup miniature Nestle' semisweet chocolate chips

Directions Prepare cookie mix dough according to package directions. Press into a greased 12-in. pizza pan. Bake at 375 degrees for 15 minutes or until set and let cool. In a mixing bowl, beat cream cheese until smooth and spread over crust. In a separate mixing bowl, beat milk and chocolate pudding mix using medium speed for 2 minutes. Spread this mixture over the cream cheese layer. Refrigerate for 20 minutes or until set. Spread whipped topping on top and sprinkle with Nestle' chocolate chips. Chill for 1-2 hours. Makes 12 servings

Pizza Popcorn

Mix a pinch of oregano, basil, and parsley in melted butter and add to popcorn and toss. Spread popcorn in single layer on cookie sheets and let dry for an hour or so before bagging them in clear cellophane bags and tying off with colored curly ribbon.

Pizza Toss Favors

Cut out "toppings" such as pictures of mushrooms, tomatoes, pepperoni out of colored construction paper and a large round of brown construction paper that fits into a real pizza pan. Glue them individually to light cardboard. (These pieces will be tossed so if you want them to fly a little better, tape a penny to the back of each piece). Lay a real pizza pan on the floor a few feet away from all the guests. Give each child an equal number of toppings and have them toss them onto the pan. Whoever gets the most toppings in the pan wins and goes to the SURPRISE PIZZA PAN (another pan filled with assorted prizes) to select the prize they want to take home. Once the winner selects a prize, a new game begins until all the guests have won "one" prize. The winners do not play.

Tea Party Favor Treats

Little Ladies Tea Party

1 plastic cup and saucer 1 bracelet 1 pearl necklace 1 ring 1 lip gloss (see recipe in this article) 1 tea bag (optional) 1 sugar cube (optional) Place all the items in a clear cellophane bag and tie with ribbon. Print out a card (shaped like a tea bag) written with a "Thank you" or the name of the guest. (Dollar stores have these items and they are very inexpensive)

Little Ladies Peach Preserve Shower Gel

Ingredients 1/4 Cup Foaming Concentrate 3/4 Cup Water 3/4 Teaspoon Salt 1 Teaspoon Apricot Kernel Oil 1/4 Teaspoon Peach Fragrance Oil Orange Food Color (or red and yellow)

Directions Mix Foaming Concentrate and water in a bowl, stirring gently until well blended. Add oils and color. Stir. Add salt, if you'd like it thicker add salt a 1/4 teaspoon at a time until the mixture is the consistency you desire. (A plastic bottle or plastic bottle with pump works great.)

Little Ladies Black Cherry Bath Salts

Ingredients Cup Rock Salt 1 Teaspoon Liquid Glycerin 1/2 Teaspoon Cherry Fragrance Oil Red Food Color

Directions Stir rock salt and glycerin together. Add fragrance oil and coloring. Stir well until color and fragrance are evenly distributed. Cover a cookie sheet with wax paper, spread salts out evenly on it and allow to dry for at least 24 hours, preferably 48 hours. Package and store in a closed container. (Use about 1/4 cup of bath salts per bottle. Glass bottles work better than plastic). Tie pretty ribbon around neck of jar. Add a tag with directions (sprinkle 1 to 2 tablespoon under running water.)

GIRLY-GIRL Stuff Party Favors

Lip Gloss

Ingredients 1/2 cup Crisco solid shortening 1 package sweetened Kool-Aid A tiny piece of lipstick (optional)

Directions Melt Crisco shortening and lipstick in microwave in a glass or ceramic bowl. Slowly add the Kool-Aid, stirring constantly. Using small plastic jars with lids or small plastic cups with lids (ask your local deli for 1 ounce size) and cap tightly.

Bubble Bath

Ingredients 1/4 cup clear "unscented" (non-fragrant) shampoo 3/4 cup water 1 tsp salt Fragrance oil (optional) -- 1 to 2 drops

Directions Mix water and shampoo slowly until it is well blended. Add salt and mix thoroughly. Pour into squeezable plastic bottles and label.

Bath Salts

Ingredients 1 cup Epson salts (from your pharmacy) 15 drops Fragrance oil Food coloring (any color)

Directions Place all the ingredients into a Ziplock bag, seal tightly and massage to work the ingredients together. When well mixed, pour into plastic or glass jars or bottles.

Peppermint Milk Bath

Ingredients 1/2 cup Powdered Milk 1 Tablespoon dried peppermint leaves

Directions Finely grint peppermint leaves by placing the leaves in a opened Ziplock bag and crush by hand, with the back of a spoon or with a rolling pin until it reaches a very fine texture. Mix the ground peppermint and dried milk together and pour into a plastic or glass jar.

BOY-BOY Stuff Party Favors

Goopey Gunky Goop

Ingredients

Part One 1 cup water 1 cup white glue 10 drops of food coloring

Part Two 1-1/3 cup warm water 4 tsp. Borax (laundry section of the grocery store)

Directions Using all Part One ingredients, mix together in a medium-sized bowl. In a separate medium-sized bowl, mix all the Part Two Ingredients until well blended and all of the Borax is completely disolved. Ever so slowly, pour Part One mixture into the Part Two bowl -- DO NOT MIX -- instead, roll the bowl around in your hands four or five times. Gently lift out the mixture and knead it (like bread dough) for several minutes. Place mixture in a Ziplock bag or container and seal tightly to keep out the air. (Air will dry the mixture out and it will crumble).

Little Men's Bay Rum Cologne

Ingredients 2 Ounces Bacardi 151 Rum 1/2 Teaspoon Bay Rum Fragrance Oil

Directions Mix together and shake well. Bottle and label with instructions to shake before using.

Little Men's Shaving Gel

Ingredients 2 Ounces Foaming Concentrate (local pharmacy) 3 Ounces Distilled Water (grocery store or pharmacy) 3/4 to 1 Teaspoon Salt 1/4 Teaspoon Bay Rum 5 Drops Green Food Coloring for Bay Rum

Directions Place Foaming Concentrate in a medium-sized bowl, add water and stir until well blended. Slowly add fragrance and food coloring, stirring constantly until mixed. Add salt a little at a time until the mixture is thick but pliable. Place in plastic or glass bottle and cap tightly.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Baby Showers

Educational Birthday Parties Without Tears

Clever & Frugal Birthday Party Favor Ideas


Educational Birthday Parties Without Tears
by Jan Andersen

If most parents are honest, they look forward to their children's birthday parties with a certain amount of trepidation, not least because of the concern about how to keep upwards of 10 small people happily occupied for two or more hours.

Forward planning is always a key phrase, but aside from the more obvious areas such as time, place, food and theme, the type of games that are played is often paramount to the success of a birthday party.

One of the best pieces of advice that I ever received when I was planning one of my children's parties, was to take time to speak to the parents of each of the invitees in order to identify their child's strengths and weaknesses. This means that through party play, each child could be given a chance to demonstrate their particular talent, whether it be memory, concentration, co-ordination, singing, counting etc. It also means that the number of tears shed would be minimized, that no child would feel eliminated and that everyone would win a prize.

There are literally hundreds of superb party games, yet how often do you resort to the same old games such as pass the parcel, musical chairs and musical statues? Of course, a lot of children love the more well-known games, but how about playing these with an added twist? With pass the parcel for example, a small prize can be wrapped into each layer. Each time the music stops, the child who is holding the parcel should be asked to do something like sing the first two lines of a nursery rhyme, count to twelve, tell the time and so on before they can open the layer and claim the prize. Alternatively, for very young children, you could place an educational toy, such as a shape sorter, in the centre and ask the child who is holding the parcel when the music stops, to put in a shape of their choice. The possibilities are endless!

The adult in charge of the game can ensure that each child has the opportunity to unwrap a layer and that the 'task' they are asked to perform correlates with the area of aptitude of that child. If you know, for example, that a child loves singing, they could be asked to sing a few lines of their favorite pop song, or a child who is especially numerate could be given a simple sum. Obviously, a younger child could simply be asked to count to ten or touch the end of their nose with their eyes closed.

Some of the more creative games I have come across include variations of the Memory Game, Toy Walk, Through the Hole, Chain and Chinese Whispers.

When selecting a theme or devising party games, it is important not only to take the child's age into account but, where possible, to identify the dominant interests of the invitees.

If you decide upon a set theme, then try and follow the theme through the party by adapting the games accordingly. For example, if you have decided upon an animal or jungle theme, then you could play games such as Kangaroo, which involves the children jumping a certain distance with an object between their knees, such as a soft animal toy.

If you don't feel that you can cope with too many boisterous games, then why not choose a theme like a video/quiz party, where the children watch a short, interactive video, followed up by questions about the movie/story, with special prizes for the top scorers. This will not only help to improve the children's observational and listening skills, but will encourage healthy competition, which most young children love.

You may decide to use an entertainer for the event, in which case it would be a good idea to ask for references, or even video footage if you have not seen the person perform before. This would avoid the worst case scenario of the entertainer not living up to their classified ad, or using material that is inappropriate for very young children.

It is also important to remember that some children are scared by certain costumes. To avoid this, you could request that the entertainer puts on his or her attire whilst the children watch.

So, at what point in the party do you play the games? This is very much down to personal choice, but as a general rule, it is a good idea to begin playing games after the initial arrival and present-opening session. This means that the children will have burnt off some energy before party food time, hopefully ensuring that there will not be too many fidgety bottoms and hyperactivity during the eating period!

As the party draws to a close is the time to introduce some quieter games, or even a story time, when the party bags can be handed out and the children have time to calm down before their parents arrive to collect them.

Finally, plan more games than you expect to use to avoid running out of activities before the party is over and always make sure that you purchase more prizes and party bags than you think you will need!

Basic Party Planning Tips

Theme and Venue

Sit down with your child and let him or her choose a few themes for the party, after which your child can make a list of who will be invited. You can then ring around the parents of the invited children to enquire about interests, talents etc. When you have an idea of the dominant interests of the other children, you and your child can then choose a theme from the original list.

From a practical point of view, you need to decide well in advance whether you will be booking a venue for the party or hosting it yourself.

Entertainment

If you decide to use an entertainer for the event, it is wise to spend some time checking out the credentials of any entertainers whom you think may be suitable. An entertainer may look good on paper, but you need to be sure that they live up to their advertisement.

Invitations

Decide whether you want the invitations to reflect the theme of the party. There are many ready-made, 'themed' invitations on the market, but you may prefer to design your own. Alternatively, there are 'free' designs that you can print yourself from the internet. As well as an RSVP note at the bottom of the invitation, it is wise to include directions to your party location for those parents who may not be familiar with the area in which you live. You may wish to include a pre-paid reply card inside the invitation to encourage parents to reply and to avoid the embarrassment of catering for an incorrect number of children.

Send your invitations out approximately two to three weeks before the party date.

Games

Whether you decide to follow the theme of the party through to the games or simply choose more traditional games, you need to plan these well ahead.

Take time to ring round the parents of the invitees to find out who has an aptitude for what and then plan the games accordingly, allowing each child the chance to show-off their particular talent and perhaps win a prize.

Organize a couple of games where everyone wins a prize, to avoid exclusion and tears!

Food and Seating Arrangements

Whether you are hosting the party yourself or using a venue where food is provided, find out in advance whether any of the children who have been invited have any specific allergies. The worst thing that could happen would be to have peanut butter sandwiches if one of the children had a severe nut allergy.

Find out in advance if any of the children have preferences as to who they would like to sit next to, or more particularly, if there is anyone whom they would not wish to be seated by. This is a difficult one, since there will inevitably be conflict between a couple of the children. However, if you can avoid this, it will make the party the happy occasion that it should be. Most importantly, find out which friends your child would prefer to sit next to.

Helping Hands

Enlist the help of other family members, friends, neighbours, other parents or anyone else who could rally round on the day. Not only will you need help decorating and organising, but trying to keep a dozen young children under control by yourself, would be impossible!

Top Tip

Take a Polaroid photo of each child as they arrive. You can then place the photos at each place setting and when it is time to eat, each child can sit at the place in front of their photo. They may then take their photo home as a memento of the party.

Party Resources

www.birthdaypartyideas.com - Great links, ideas, books and party supplies www.boardmanweb.com/party - Free themes and ideas, gifts, books and links www.1800partyconsultants.com - Party Fun Shop www.birthdayexpress.com - Themes, menu planning, party checklist, online invitations www.edgamesandart.com - Links to dozens of party and games' sites, plus books and free magazines

Excellent Books 100 Plus Party Games - Fun and Easy Ideas by Sally Stuart and Woody Young Price $7.95 available at www.joypublishing.com

The following are all available at a discounted price at www.amazon.com

Kid-Tastic Birthday Parties - The Complete Party Planner for Today's Kids by Jane Chase List price $11.95 Amazon price $10.16

The Children's Party Handbook - Fantasy, Food and Fun by Alison Boteler List Price $16.95 Amazon price $13.56 Birthday Parties for Kids - Creative Party ideas Your Kids and Their Friends Will Love by Penny Warner List price $11.95 Amazon price $9.56

Kids' party Games and Activities - Hundreds of Exciting Things to Do at Parties for Kids 2-12 by Penny Warner and Kathy Rogers List price $12.00 Amazon price $9.60

The Kids' Pick-A-Party Book: 50 Fun Party Themes for Kids Ages 2-16 by Penny Warner and Liya Lev Oertel List price $9.00 Amazon price $7.20

CD Rom Click Art Parties and Entertainment - contains pre-designed, co-ordinated sets, graphics and photos. Party theme templates e.g. Fairytale party, Circus party Amazon price $19.99

The Games:

Memory Game: Place a number of objects on a tray (usually higher than the number of children present) and cover with a cloth. Once all the children are sat in a circle, remove the cloth for a period of time, say one minute, and ask the children to try and memorise all the objects on the tray. Replace the cloth and then, in turn, ask each child to name an object on the tray within a time frame of about 10 seconds. When a child fails to name an object, they are out of the game. The game continues until either all the objects are named or until there is one child left in the game, if not all the objects have been named. Obviously, any children remaining at the end of the game are winners.

Toy Walk: Place raffle tickets on several small toys or other prizes, but keep these hidden from the children. On large pieces of card, or thick paper, write several numbers, including those corresponding to the raffle ticket numbers and lay them out in a random pattern on the floor. Play some music and ask the children to walk or dance around the numbers, taking care not to step on them. When the music stops, each child should stand on the number closest to them. If the number they are standing on corresponds to one of the numbers on a prize, they win that prize. Through the Hole: This preparation for this game can be time consuming, but is well worth the effort. Depending on the theme of the party, cut out a head shape eg. a Teletubby, colour it as required and then cut out a hole where its mouth is. Using softballs, or homemade beanbags filled with pasta, the children take turns to throw the balls/bags into the mouth. Obviously, the one who gets most objects through the mouth is the winner. For older children, you can vary the shape and size of the objects thrown to make it a bit more difficult.

Chain: This is a very simple game, but one that children love and which also develops dexterity and concentration skills. Fill several containers (plastic food storage containers are ideal) with paper clips. Put on some music and ask the children to start making a chain each from the paper clips. When the music stops, the child who has made the longest chain wins.

Chinese Whispers: This is a fabulous game for enhancing listening and verbal communication skills. The children sit in a circle and an adult whispers a phrase or sentence into the ear of a child, so that none of the other children can hear. That child then whispers the phrase into the ear of the next child and so on. When the final child in the circle has heard the phrase, he or she repeats out loud what they have heard. This game can have hilarious consequences.

HAVE FUN!!!!! (Rather you than me)

About the Author
Jan Andersen, Swindon, Wiltshire, England
worldwriteruk@hotmail.com

http://www.mothersover40.com

Jan Andersen is a British freelance writer and mother of four children. Her youngest three children are aged 17, 15 and 3. Jan's eldest son, Kristian tragically died on 1 November 2002 at the age of 20, as a result of which she has just launched a new supportive website for families who have lost a child to suicide: http://childsuicide.homestead.com

Jan specializes in humorous, satirical and thought-provoking articles, essays and columns on diverse topics, from relationships, parenting and women's issues, to psychology, health and social issues. She also owns and run Mothers Over 40, an inspirational and supportive site for older parents and those considering midlife pregnancy. www.mothersover40.com http://worldwriter.homestead.com

     


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